…is the title of today’s AM New York.
Now, I only read AM New York because the guy that hands them out in Penn station tells me I’m pretty, and I’m a sucker for a compliment, but today’s headline is pretty funny.
“NYers scoff at survey saying Big Apple is least friendly city”
I scoff at that too! Ruder then Boston? Tell me that after walking through Kenmore square wearing a Yankee hat. I don’t even LIKE the Yankees and I’ll wear their gear in Boston simply for the reaction.
Ruder then Washington, DC? I don’t know. Well, maybe. I mean NYers aren’t known for sugar-coating things, like politicians are, so maybe its rude to not give you a reach around whilst stabbing you in the back.
NYers are not rude people. Sure there are rude people here, but they’re everywhere. And when you cram a little over 8 million people in about 305 square miles, you’re bound to catch at least one person having a bad day, but on a whole, we’re actually pretty nice. Ask me for directions, you’ll see. I won’t even laugh when you ask me where 6th Avenue is. Not even if you’re standing on it.
We’re assertive, sure. We get frustrated when tourists take complete control of where we need to go for work, and walk so slow, you almost think they’re moving goddamn backwards. We aren’t afraid to speak our minds, but we’re not rude.
Its rare you’ll find a NYer that won’t hold the door for you. The difference is, if you DO close a door in my face, you can bet your ass I’m going to call you out on it. I won’t just shrug it off as poor manners. You should thank me, I’m helping you become a better person. And when you cough your outbreak monkey germs for an hour on my train ride, I’m going to tell you that you should cover your mouth, or stay home when you’re sick (helpful advice).
NYers have displayed multiple times in the past 11 years their pride and love for the city they live in/work in/visit; and are more often than not found sticking up for our Metropolis. Being the target of hateful crimes has merely brought a feeling of serious pride in where we live, so when people say we’re rude, we tend to get our fur up and tell them the f-ck off.
I’ve done a bit of traveling, and when I tell people where I’m from, they automatically ask me if I have a gun (well, a stun gun, but I don’t have a carry permit for the pistol), if I’ve ever been mugged, and why I don’t have an accent. That seems a touch ignorant, no? Granted, NYC is the most widely known part of NY, but it’s not the entire state. That’s like me asking someone from Maine if they’ve ever caught a lobster.
I also get riddled with questions about NYC, how to find my way around it (it’s a friggin grid, even I can’t get lost here), if there really are giant rats in the subway (yep, and they like pizza), do Mole people really live in the tunnels (goddamn right they do, my old housemate is an expert in them), how to hail a cab (show em some leg), does anyone speak English (sure, along with 799 other languages), have I ever seen a hooker (every time I look in the mirror, JUST KIDDING), do bums take my money (not unless I give it to them), do I know any crackheads (no), drug dealers (just the pharmacist), cops (um, yes), firemen (uh…yes) or movie stars (just me).
We’ve got a city full of culture, food, celebrities, music. Our Police Department and Fire Department are not only the Bravest/Finest men around, they’re also the best trained, and travel to OTHER states/cities to teach ya’ll how to handle your citizens. We’re known for our pizza, our Bagels, our accents and our tough skin – and there’s no place else I’d rather be.
not even New Jersey.